Gurleen is a first year English student at Kings College London. Alongside academic work, she is passionate about the arts, including painting, playing the piano, reading, and video editing. She also enjoys playwriting and as of 2023, was listed as a nationally ranked playwright for the National Theatre. She is also dedicated to animal welfare and has recently rescued and adopted a stray kitten. Due to her interest in the legal system and criminal justice, she is also considering pursuing a career in law following her English degree.
The Power of a Narrative: The Menendez Brothers
True crime is a billion-dollar industry, from TV shows, podcasts and books. The darkest and most horrifying stories seem to compel and captivate public consciousness, from following along the narrative like a real-life mystery, to understanding why someone chose to commit the crimes they did. However, over the decades, as well as an increased interest in true crime, there has also simultaneously been an increase in the change of public perception of what constitutes as justice, consequently unravelling important social issues and resulting in social movements.
One of the most recent and largest calls from criminal justice which some of you may be familiar with, is that of The Menendez Brothers. Lyle and Erik Menendez are two brothers who, on the night of August 20th 1989, shot their parents, Jose and Kitty Menendez, to death in their Beverley Hills house and have been incarcerated since 1990. However, in recent years, there has been a growing social movement to free the brothers. Although their case is a well-known American true crime story, its impact has reached far beyond the United States, where increasingly growing numbers of people across the globe are learning about their story in an effort to recognise the truth. This blog post explores how Lyle and Erik’s story and case has been misrepresented in certain aspects of the media and the inconsistencies presented within the criminal justice system.
Back to the 90s
At the time of the murders, Joseph Lyle Menendez and Erik Galen Menendez were 21 and 18 respectively. They maintained the story that the murders were a mob hit, possibly by the mafia until their eventual arrest in March 1990. The media spun the narrative that both Lyle and Erik were ‘spoiled greedy rich kids’ until their trial in 1993 which uncovered a far different version of the truth than what was currently being portrayed. Both brothers proclaimed that they had suffered physical, emotional and psychological abuse at the hands of their parents for the entirety of their lives, as well as sexual abuse, Lyle from the ages of six to eight, and Erik, from the ages of six to a few weeks before the killings. The brothers were very reluctant to give up this information due to their embarrassment and to not wanting to tarnish their family name, as well as the stigma surrounding sexual abuse, both brothers feeling their story would not be believed.
On the days leading up to the murder and in the moments before, ominous threats and extreme tension lead to the brothers believing they were going to be killed by the parents, resulting in them acting first and killing them in self-defence.
In the first trial however, the prosecution instead claimed the boys killed to inherit their parents’ $14 million fortune. The trial ended in a hung jury where the jurors were unable to unanimously agree on a decision, which subsequently resulted in a much more restricted and bias second trial, where a limited amount of the vast evidence of sexual abuse the boys suffered, was allowed to be admitted, resulting in Lyle and Erik being convicted of first-degree murder in 1996, and sentenced to life in prison without the possibility of parole. Since then, Lyle and Erik have continued to state that they killed in self-defence and have been described as ‘model prisoners’, working to rehabilitate themselves, as well as being an asset to the prison community they live in.
Monsters
The Menendez Brothers’ case has resulted in numerous TV shows, podcasts and books being written, some in an effort to shed light on the truths of the case, and others simply for profit and sensationalised story telling. In September of 2024, a TV series named ‘Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story’ was released on Netflix, something which many of you may be aware of. The series, far from being a ‘true crime documentary’, seemed to be a Hollywoodized version of events filled with misconceptions and lies spun by second-rate producer Ryan Murphy, with the role of Lyle being undertaken by Nicholas Alexander-Chavez, and Erik by Cooper Koch. The series seems to have been created purely for the purpose of entertainment, rather than one which could help to further illuminate truth.
For example, one portrayal in the show, is that of some incestuous fantasy, where Murphy has depicted the brothers as being involved with each other, which is not only disgustingly hurtful, but also a completely false narrative. Another main point of criticism is the portrayal of Lyle as a whole, who is seen as being a hot-headed, rude liar, with anger and profanity issues when in fact, there is clear-cut evidence of Lyle’s kindness and care towards children and animals, as well as members of his family stating that they have never even heard him raise his voice. As part of Lyle’s Disciplinary Record, it is stated that in his 36 years in incarceration, he has not been in a single fight, and ‘in 1997, had to be moved from the General Population to the Special Needs Yard because he wouldn’t fight back when attacked’. Lyle was also portrayed as someone who could ‘move a jury’ because he had practiced crying, shown from a scene displaying his phone conversations with a woman called Norma Novelli who took advantage of Lyle in his vulnerable state, by publishing a book along with audio tapes she recorded of him without his knowledge or consent. However, this line of wording was also another fabrication, where in reality, Lyle stated how he was actually going be himself and wanted the jury to see the pain involved in his past. Both Lyle and Erik were also portrayed as swearing and shouting at their lawyers, Jill Lansing and Leslie Abramson respectively, when once again, in reality, both brothers adored their attorneys. Lyle referred to his lawyer with the adoring nickname ‘Jilly’, and Erik begged the court to allow Leslie to remain as his lawyer for the second trial, in fear that he could not testify without her.
It appears that Murphy’s source material for ‘Monster’s’, was those full of lies and bias, with Murphy admitting he used old Vanity Fair articles written by reporter Dominick Dunne (who openly hated the brothers) and also stating that he had not once contacted any other family members or the brothers themselves to gain material for the show, only reinforcing that the series, whilst drawing in an audience, was filled with inaccuracies and slander.
Documenting the Truth
Following the ’Monsters’ series, a documentary directed by Alejandro Hartman was subsequently released onto Netflix which gave a much less dramatized version of events, including allowing viewers the chance to hear both brother’s own voices, stating their thoughts with the current way their case is progressing. This documentary was far more realistic and informative, given that not only the brothers’ own voices were heard, but also family members, and those involved in the case at the time, such as jurors. The documentary is clear-cut and although does not include every minute piece of evidence, such as the more recent discoveries of new evidence supporting the case, it overall is much more factual and compelling, clearly made with the attempt to display the truth rather than for ratings.
Since both the documentary and the series, an increasing number of people have become more aware of the case, with many speaking up about the ‘Monster’s show’s misrepresentation of the brothers and many more speaking about how the series led them to uncover the real truths about the case and the documentary, to discover further truths.
This also poses the question about how relevant and influential the media is when it comes to criminal justice. Justice should be delivered for the sake of justice where it should not take sensationalised TV shows and millions of voices to raise awareness to those in power who should have enough decency and sense of morality to set right a wrong. Although ‘Monsters’ has raised awareness for the case, there is a difference between a ‘true crime’ which delivers facts and an inaccurate and controversial show created for ratings. It is these very stereotypes portrayed in the shows that causes a population of people to still question Lyle and Erik’s story, as well as the stories of many other sexual abuse survivors.
The Truth in Print
After reading the book ‘The Menendez Murders’ by journalist Robert Rand, it is clear to see however, that not all media is negative media. Rand is a journalist who has commendably continued in his coverage of the case back from 1989. His book was an incredibly insightful and comprehensive read about the facts of what occurred and exactly the type of media in which opinions should be formed upon. Rand’s book covers both trials, as well as interviews with witnesses put on the stand and also introduces the new evidence: a letter written by Erik to his cousin Andy Cano referencing what can be understood as the abuse and also the words of a former Menudo (a famous Puerto Rican boy band formed in 1977) member, who came forward to state how he too was raped on several occasions by Jose Menendez in the ‘Menendez + Menudo: Boys Betrayed’ documentary.
Rand’s book was clearly well researched and his first accounts of speaking with the brothers, (still being a loyal friend of theirs to this day) as well as speaking with family members and his account of the events that occurred, is truly fascinating.
Alongside Rand’s book, I also read ‘Hung Jury’, by Hazel Thornton, a juror for Erik Menendez during the first trial. Her story of what happened behind closed doors during events such as jury deliberations was truly captivating and it was especially intriguing to see how the minds of other jurors during the trial worked, as well as compare other’s beliefs and opinions. One key element that was introduced into jury deliberations was as to whether Erik Menendez was gay, and therefore, could have made up his entire defines of sexual abuse based on previous homosexual relationships. Although he is not, Thornton describes this issue as something of upmost importance to some jurors, however, she herself stated that even if he was gay, his sexuality should play no part on whether he was molested as a child, and she is correct, for being gay does not mean you are lying about abuse taking place, and your sexuality should not be such a controversial point of conversation.
Overall, her book is not only an incredibly unique and powerful insight into the case as a juror, but also a factual and interesting perspective of her situation, making one feel like they are almost there with her. The book also contains both psychological and legal commentaries made by experts analysing sections of the book and Thornton’s viewpoints which make for a further interesting read, allowing one to fully delve into and understand her mindset.
The Tale of Two Systems
Lyle, now 57, and Erik, now 54, are currently awaiting a resentencing hearing that has been pushed back several times, but is currently set for May 13th and 14th 2025, and also a hearing set for June 13th 2025 which could result in clemency should they not be eligible for resentencing, either of which analysing could finally result in their freedom after over 36 years, 22 years of which were spent incarcerated separately, a decision clearly made without a shred of humanity. It seems incredible to think that, despite their efforts at rehabilitation alongside having no prior history of violence and being under the age of 26 at the time (which makes you eligible for parole under California law), the brothers have still remained incarcerated.
Gypsy Rose Blanchard is an American woman who pled guilty to second degree murder after her boyfriend murdered her mother due to her mother’s abuse. However, she was not only given just a 10-year sentence, but also only carried out 8 years of that sentence before being released. This is not to compare the stories or the crimes, however, it displays the notion of lack of consistency in the criminal justice system and essentially injustice as a whole.
Rose Blanchard stated that she felt as if could not escape because she had been programmed to think that way and thought no one would believe her, the very same belief that both Lyle and Erik held, however, where Rose-Blanchard was understood, Lyle and Erik were ridiculed.
To pose another extreme, Jefferey Dhamer was an American serial killer and sex offender who murdered 17 young men between the years of 1978 and 1991. His other offences included necrophilia and cannibalism. After his arrest and hearing, he was sentenced to fifteen consecutive life terms, which would essentially constitute to life in prison without the possibly of parole, the same sentence that Lyle and Erik received; as Lyle Menendez himself said:
‘We ended up with the same sentence as a serial killer. And every day we watched people get parole, and 34 years later, Erik and I are still watching’.
Despite some of the population disbelieving Lyle and Erik’s story still to this day, this legally constitutes as unjust. Why are the sentences between Rose-Blanchard and The Menendez Brothers so different? Is it because of gender? Or is it because of a socially progressive society that is more willing to understand the psychological impacts of trauma victims now, leading to their belief of being unable to escape and resorting to killing more comprehensible? Why are Dhamer’s and The Menendez brother’s sentences so similar? Is it because the system is somehow able to group together a serial killer, sex offender and cannibal and two young boys who were afraid of their lives after suffering years of abuse, into the same category?
While I am not condoning murder, to me, the lack of empathy, humanity and the sentence seems absolutely incredulous. As Erik Menendez himself said:
‘I’m not saying what I did was right or justifiable. I needed to go to prison. But place another child in my life and see what happens. I felt it was either my life or my parents’ life’.
Behind Bars
Whilst incarcerated, both brothers have worked tirelessly in the efforts to rehabilitate themselves whilst simultaneously help other inmates. Lyle Menendez has graduated from the University of California, Irvine with his Bachelor of Arts degree in Sociology, and has created four new programs within the prison to help transform prison life, including: The Greenspace Project, Rehabilitation through Beautification, Adverse Childhood Experience and Rehabilitation and Youth Life without the Possibility of Parole Ally, as well as creating and writing the WIRE Bulletin, which helps the Inmate Advisory Council relay matters to the inmate population and helping in projects supporting service dogs, like the Guide Dogs of America program.
Whilst incarcerated, Erik has similarly worked hard on his rehabilitation as well as helping others – he has earned his Associated Degree in Sociology, earned his Certificate in Proficiency in American Sign Language and has also been accepted into the University of California, Irvine. He has also created five new programs within the prison including: The Life are and Hospice Connection Program, Victim Impact and Victim Empathy for Vulnerable Populations, Twelve Step and Meditation Class, Insight and Meditations Workshops and The Starlight Peace Project.
All of these initiatives were conceived whilst both Lyle and Erik had no hope of being released from prison, clearly displaying the notion that they are not the cold-blooded killers that the some of the media and prosecution tried to paint, but genuinely honest and caring individuals.
Not a single one of these successes has been portrayed by ‘Monsters’, displaying how the show, compared to factual accounts of Rand and Thornton, exists as a sensationalised drama that not only hinder progress for the brothers, but hinders the progress and truth of sexual abuse victims as a whole.
Their story is more than just a drama and while their case has been exploited and certain truths been buried and twisted, their voices and the voices of sexual abuse survivors deserve to be heard.
I encourage you to learn the true facts about the case by watching their testimonies and reading Rand’s and Thornton’s novels to form opinions, rather than judging through the lens of a popular dramatized version of events created for a show. Justice cannot be determined by TV ratings, and the truth cannot and should not be written to fit an idealised script – how many others have suffered because of this very narrative?
As Rand has stated in his book:
‘Nothing should ever give you a free pass to kill your parents. But if there are mitigating circumstances – as there clearly were in this case – the resolution should be manslaughter and not murder. Because we live in a more enlightened, more compassionate society, the time has come to seriously consider releasing Erik and Lyle from prison’.
March 8th 2025 marked exactly 36 years since the brothers have been incarcerated. Despite the fabrications in some media, there surely is enough truth in others, as well as the brothers’ own words, to consider release? As Erik has stated in Hartman’s documentary, ‘Not speaking out doesn’t help anyone’, and as Lyle stated, ‘For the first time I feel like it’s a conversation where people now can understand and believe.’
Let the truth stand as the truth.
Information in the blog post referenced numerous sources including:
The Menendez Trial on Court TV
Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story
The Menendez Brothers documentary
Menendez + Menudo: Boys Betrayed
The Menendez Murders by Robert Rand
Hung Jury: Diary of a Menendez Juror by Hazel Thornton
ABC News
NBC Los Angeles
Daily Mail
The Guardian
Written by Gurleen Dhiman